She was not very concerned about the mistress he was Violet Crawley what is a weekend shirt to have had, because she was a relative of hers. The mistress and the daughter they had are now both dead, along with the child’s father, of course. These characters lived in Buckingham Palace for a while, but there was never any publicity. OH honey noooooo. The BIGGEST mistake you can do is send a 12 year old with a 16 year old. The 12 year old will be exposed to things that she should not at her age and her view of the world will change. If she was 15 I’d have said yeah go ahead they’re practically the same age but no middle schooler should ever be around a group of high schoolers! Why do I say that second? Well, it was Philip’s choice. He and Elixabeth met Britten several times. And Britten was an gay man who, even in the fifties lived openly with his lover (the singer Peter Pears). It seems alot of people answering completely ignored the part where you stated the person who is carrying this pregnancy does not want to keep the baby. This is HER choice.
As hard as this is to understand, you must, because life in itself is not fair. (Assuming it truly is her choice and not a choice pushed onto her by her parents) This young lady has infinitely more to lose with keeping this baby. You as the young man can ALWAYS walk away at any time. Leaving her stuck in a situation she was trying to actively avoid by terminating. Listen to your partner and her reasons for wanting to and not wanting to move forward with this pregnancy. The only mature decision is to stand by her choice and PLEASE wear protection until you and your partner are ready to fully commit the rest of your lives to a child. It isn’t just 18 years. It’s for life. Good luck to you both. She is trying to wriggle back in. She wants your attention, reaction, supply. Trying to work out how serious you are about the whole thing. You will have to explain to the grandchildren about No Contact and let them know not to pass any messages from your mother onto you. Otherwise, you aren’t really No Contact after all and the narcissist knows this and wins again!